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Are you one of those average Joe types that never gets any hot dates online? Wondering why the cutest girls never meet you for drinks? Buddy it’s because you’re not doing the footwork. Read on and get some expert tips on how to date the hottest girl online.

So you want to have the prettiest girl on that online dating site, on your arm? Here are a few steps to getting a hottie to keep you warm during the winter.

Dating tip one

You attract what you put out

If your online dating profile looks like it belongs to a frat boy with beer breath and a bad attitude all you’re going to attract is cougars. Try putting together a personals page that is more suave. If you want to have a hot, well put together girl, you’ve got to look the part too. Click on the link for a previous article I wrote on 4 ways to Turbo Charge Your Dating Profile.

Here are few highlights on how to put together an attractive profile.

• Have a profile ID: that represents who you are in a positive way. DO NOT refer to any body parts in your ID. Instead, if you’re into hiking, try “worth-the-hike” or “that-tree-guy”. Something like that. It’s better to be cheesy than creepy.
• Taglines: are important. Be confident, be funny, but never be crude. Again, mentioning your “package” or how much of a “giver” you are in bed isn’t going to win you any points. A favorite quote is always a good way to go.
• About you: is where you can sink the love boat or swim with dolphins. It’s really up to you. Keep things simple, say what you like to do, what your values are and what you’re looking for. Keep things positive and don’t complain.
• Photo: Get a shot that’s recent. Don’t do the bathroom mirror myspace shot. All that says is that you don’t have any friends who are willing to take pictures of you. Women like a guy who takes care of himeslf, so that photo of you at your cousin’s wedding this summer, where you’re in that suit? That’s probably a good one to use.

Dating tip two

Ask and you shall receive

Have you ever heard the old saying “you don’t ask, you don’t get”? How about “the squeaky wheel gets the grease”? They are famous sayings for a reason. If you’re going to get the girl, you have to make an effort and actually reach out to her.

Here’s how to get the date of your dreams.

1. READ her profile! Do you know how many hot girls online get one line messages like “hey bright eyes” or “You’re beautiful”. They’re hot and greeting them with this knowledge isn’t going to win you any points. Really reading their profile will though. Think about it, most pretty people aren’t listened to, they’re looked at. Read her profile, then read it again, try and read between the lines and see what she’s really saying.

2. Message her. Yep, you’re going to have to take the leap. Send off a message. Make it two sentences long, give or take one sentence. That’s it though, don’t go too short or too long. Mention THREE things you read in her profile. Relate, if you can, or, ask a question. Assume she’s going to message you back. Don’t ask for a date, yet.

3. When she messages back, don’t respond…for two days. I’m not one to play games, but pretty girls usually get things way too fast. So, when you see a message from her in your folder, don’t open it and don’t go back online for two days (yes I know this is excruciating). Why wait two days? It gives her just enough time to tell her friends about you, but not enough to be justifiably angry for you not responding.

4. Message her back. Don’t apologize for the delay, just see what she says. Respond, and at the end of the message say “I’d like to take you out, when are you free”. Just like that. It’s direct and doesn’t waste time. Chances are…she’ll say yes.

Dating tip three

Make the date special, make her yours

Here’s where all of that profile reading can give you a big leg up…

Here are a few tips to making a first date amazing.

If she names a favorite band, see if they’re in town. If they are, get tickets. Mention casually that you have tickets for your date. Good music is a great way to connect on a first date.

If she’s an earthy type, take her to a flower conservatory. Buy coffee before hand and wander around in a indoor garden. It’s romantic and creative.

Any favorites listed on her profile are great for date mining. If she said that Thai is her favorite food, take her to a Thai restaurant. Does she love roller skating? Take her to a retro rink. Likes art? Check out a hip local gallery. You get the idea.

Remember, you never get a second chance to make that first date impression, so make things magical for her.

Hot girls are just like anyone else… just prettier.

Connecting with beautiful women isn’t as hard as you think. Try the above tips and soon you may find yourself with the girl of your dreams.

Good luck!